When ever he has a surprise for you, your mind starts running and you begin to think, maybe he is finally going to ask me to marry him, you are happy, looking forward to his surprise, once again he got a lovely set of earrings.
You have been dating for a couple of years now, when ever the talk of marriage or kids comes in he changes the subject or water it down, saying when both of you are ready there is no stopping, Yet he knows you are more than ready to get marry. You are living together, he can never bring himself to call you his wife, or his women just his girl friend or by your name when he is with his friends, with his friends he talks openly about marriage, and can tell others what a good marriage is all about, yet he says he love you intensely. He is good to you in all ways, he treats you well, loves you with all his heart, but cannot commit to you. You want to know the answer to this kind of person , well he loves you, but not enough to take you as a wife, be very careful with such relationship, it is always best to open up to him, so you know what he has in store for you, wait no longer and propose marriage to him, his repose will tell you if you are in the right relationship or not, the sooner you ask the sooner you get your answer. Those of you worried and afraid to ask is because you already know the answer he will give, the question is, if you know the answer as a (refuses) why are you still with him, what you have to realize is as a woman we get older faster than men, in this life we all live we only get to live it once, so if a relationship is taking too much of your time and energy, without a positive result, than it about time to call it a day. Why do you have to tip toe with a loved one, why do you always have to go out of your way to make him happy, why do you keep your life on hold because of him, or put your life on hold, for someone you know deep down will never say the word to you “Marry Me”.
He does not deserve you Get up, and make the smart move, or are you worried you will be single for the rest of your life, if you don’t take the risk you never know, staying alone is much better than being in love with someone who says he loves you but can’t commit. If you don’t call it off, he will sooner than you can imagine.
Commitment should be a two way thing not one. Every serious relationship by right or by rule of life should end in a very happy and understanding marriage, so please make a move and ask him to marry you,. having an answer is better than hoping against hope, or anticipating the worst.By BN.
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