Keeping Your Marriage Together

 Marriage vows are  made because they are important and  must be kept, you can't make a vow and not keep, we
must work extra hard to keep our marriages together, if you came from a broken home than you will understand why you must work really hard for some thing and someone you love and cherish, you cant just wake up and say you, want out, that is why before marriage you must do the following, Test Drive The question  is how do you test drive, remember before you drive a car you must first pass your writen and driving test, if you have to go though all this for you to be able to drive a car, than you must be ready to go through test drive before you get married, or even after marriage Test Driving is all about going for a counselling, understanding the person you are getting married to, understanding what marriage is all about, accepting and knowing that marriage is a life time commitment.  If you believe you can remain with one person all your life, that you can go to the next level of of understanding the person you are getting married, next is understanding the concept of marriage, the value of children, the reason why kids should be protected from all angles, (the most and worst hurting a child  get is from the parent, which is a broken home, ) these are the issues you must first work out, before you think of even getting married, and you can start by going to counselling, my recommendation is always to go to church counselling, it always refreshing and helpful.