Can You Be Honest In The Start Of A New Relationship

The backbone of any relationship is called honesty. The question I keep getting from friends, do you tell it all? in the start of a new relationship? or do you wait til later to tell it all?, or never at all? there is no straight answer to these question, every relation must begin or take off with honesty and trust, therefore if your past life or things you have done in the past should or must be mentioned than you should, there are things that can wait, and as the relationship progresses you can bring it up, there are things that are just not necessary, there are things that must and should be said even before you agree to start dating. One of the basics of a solid relationship is honesty which also involves telling all you need to tell before moving on to the next level. This gives the other person the room to take it all in, and accept you for who you are or not, no matter how little a lie is, it can cause most times a major problem. Therefore if you think you have sometime important that your new partner has to know, it always best to hear it from you, instead of others, and what was meant to be an innocent past, becomes a major catastrophe. One thing we never truly understand in life is that, what is meant to be will be but only with the truth, no matter how terrible the truth may sound, that is why those things are referred to as the past, therefore your new partner knows, that is your past, you are facing your future a much wiser and better person. It always a thumb up for you when you speak the honest truth in the start of a meaningful relationship. Betty Nwabunike