Am Single and free

There nothing like being single with no commitment, little or almost no responsibility, the list of a single girl or single boy are endless, I call it one of total freedom, where you  can make  lot to  happen.

Never rush into any kind of relationship,  if you have never dated before, you are not missing any thing, you will know when the time is right or when you meet the right person, if you just came out of an old relation,  now more than ever is the time to relax, and understand the reason why the last relationship not not work, ,  there is too much work in any relationship, so ending one and jumping into the next is just a  punishment, it won’t  make you feel any better or recover fast, you recover faster when you take your time and a big break.

Relation should not define who you are, but you should be defined by who you are and what you are.

Without realising it, one of the most important time in our lives is when we are single and free, it gives you time to reflex on things that needs to be done, it gives you time to see things differently, IE your education, are you at the point where you think you should be,.
Let us talk about your job are you happy with your position, or will like to upgrade it by changing jobs or going in for more qualification, if you are still in school are you getting your grade, now is the time to make do or make away with things you are not happy about.

I believe being single is for a reason it gives you time to concentrate on the me time, it gives you time to work on your self, improve you being, and understand what it like to be in a relationship and even gives you a little clue as to what you need to be in a commitment  relationship or marriage, SINGLETON helps you understand a lot, things you can not really understand if you where in a relationship, it shapes you into the next phase of you life.

Therefore, understanding who you are what you are when you are single is very important part of your being it gears you towards your marriage life.

Single And Dating

Therefore you see your single life as learning curve for you, so that when you go into the dating world you know how to present your self, which is attracting the right person to match your personality, not giving the wrong signals  By Betty Nwabunike